As the holidays approach and you find yourself in a situation where your relationship may have been on the rocks for sometime and now the extra stress of the holidays is making it all come to a head, it might be time to sit down and decide if this relationship is really worth all the trouble. Think about it, are you the only one putting effort into the relationship?

If the answer is no but there is still trouble , think about doing some research and decide once and for all where this relationship is going.
There are worse things than being alone during the holidays.